Posts Tagged ‘someone’

If someone is trying to get clean and sober and keeps using, but always wants my help, what do I do?

July 26, 2010 - 1:14 pm 11 Comments

Question by worldpeaceplse: If someone is trying to get clean and sober and keeps using, but always wants my help, what do I do?
A friend habitually drinks after around thirty days clean and sober, but wants to get help from me and does not want me to give up on them. Every time there is a relapse there is guilt and shame, but a week later wants to continue to try. I do not know what to do, and I am growing weary of this situation. They could die from late stage alcoholism, but cannot go into in-patient rehabilitation, due to circumstances. I have been there for them and also in recovery. What should I do that will be most effective that might click?

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Answer by FORZA ITALIAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!
Tell them the truth – that you are sick and tired of the cycle and can’t do anything to help them if they don’t honestly want to help themselves. Say “DUDE- YOU ARE GONNA DIE!!!” and see where that gets ya. Tell them to check into treatment. There’s really nothing you can do – it’s up to him to make those choices in his life.

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Q&A: How exactly does smoking crack cause someone to have a heart attack?

July 26, 2010 - 1:01 pm 6 Comments

Question by Simon says: How exactly does smoking crack cause someone to have a heart attack?
My friend had a major heart attack(she’s 39 yrs old)-and actually “died” 3 x -she had been smoking crack the night before-she is an addict trying to stay clean thru NA ( like me -only Ive been clean 5 yrs and never did use crack) I dont know a whole lot about how crack affects the body.What would happen if she were to relapse again?

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Answer by NICOLENE
She won’t be the same again. Good luck and just be a good friend to her!!

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Helping Someone Overcome Addiction

May 15, 2010 - 7:07 pm 1 Comment


Why drug and alcohol addiction rip families apart? Why addiction causes mothers and fathers to leave their children and lose everything they have? What causes addiction and how does it creep into people’s lives and overwhelm them until there’s nothing left but the drugs and the pain? Well the TRUTH is that there are very exact and known reasons why a person begins using DRUGS and ALCOHOL and then becomes addicted to them. There are also exact reasons why a person finds it IMPOSSIBLE to stop using drugs once they’ve become addicted. Addiction leaves the family asking the question, “Why can’t my loved one just STOP?” Finally, there is a book that answers these questions and many more… Visit, www.about-drugs.org

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What would happen if someone got caught with cocaine getting on a airplane?

January 12, 2010 - 6:20 am 10 Comments

Let say they had about 3.5 grams of cocaine and they were arrest once before for cocaine.So would it be the persons second offense?

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What scientific tests do law enforcement use to detect methamphetamine manufacture if someone complains?

January 10, 2010 - 10:19 am 2 Comments

There is a problem in my apartment building, but law enforcement has only taken a hit and miss approach to this matter, including questioning the persons involved. Does anyone really think someone manufacturing methamphetamine would admit it to law enforcement? Law enforcement actually told someone who complained to stop contacting to law enforcement!

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Can someone give me these drunk driving statistics?

January 10, 2010 - 4:33 am 5 Comments

What is the average aged who is pulled over for drunk driving?

On average, how many teens in the US are caught drunk driving each year?

On average how many people are killed each year due to drunk driving?

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Does someone who consumes 12 drinks within one night of partying, a binge drinker?

January 9, 2010 - 6:26 pm 9 Comments

A friend of mine likes to get drunk about once a month, because he enjoys losing control. He described a typical night of partying as being 12 drinks. He also claims that he would be fine to drive after this, and I’m wondering if he has an alochol problem.

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What is the best way to get over a 2 1/2 year relationship with someone who was great, but binge drinker?

January 9, 2010 - 6:26 pm 1 Comment

I am a 29 year old woman living in Central Oregon. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years due to his binge drinking. I love him, but it became too much. I have been home all day…tried gardening, took a walk, but still feel down in the dumps. Any ideas to pick up my spirits?

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How do I get someone (50years old) to stop using illicit drugs?

January 9, 2010 - 5:21 pm 1 Comment

I thought he would never touch any illicit drugs. He never used any illicit drugs until the age of 50. I think he is using marijuana to get high. Whenever I think about illicit drugs, I always have horrible thoughts. Is there anyway that I can convince him to stop using?

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How exactly does smoking crack cause someone to have a heart attack?

January 9, 2010 - 5:17 pm 7 Comments

My friend had a major heart attack(she’s 39 yrs old)-and actually “died” 3 x -she had been smoking crack the night before-she is an addict trying to stay clean thru NA ( like me -only Ive been clean 5 yrs and never did use crack) I dont know a whole lot about how crack affects the body.What would happen if she were to relapse again?

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