Do looks really count when it comes to finding love?
When it comes to finding love, it seems that beauty really is in the eye of the beholder writes co-author of ‘How to get the man you want’ and ‘How to get the woman you want’ Katia Loisel-Furey.
When it comes to getting the one you want, is there hope for those of us who weren’t blessed with model good looks?
Do men really fall in love with their eyes first?
Girls, there’s no denying that men are visual creatures but the good news is that they’re not as superficial as you might think. The Real People – Real Answers study found that although 79% of men thought that appearances were important, 67% rated a woman’s attitude as more important than her looks.
Most men aren’t after a supermodel
Believe or not, most men aren’t after a six foot tall, Swedish supermodel with a cascade of platinum blonde hair and perky E cup breasts. That’s not say that you wouldn’t look, if Giselle walked past, (in fact you’d probably have to pick their tongue off the floor), but when it comes to finding love, what do men really look for in the looks department?
Is ‘heroin chic’ thin really in?
If the sight of your saddlebags or flabby tummy sends you reeling in horror and ordering salads with dressing on the side for the next month, here’s a comforting thought. It’s official, curves are in with 63% of men preferring a woman with curves over the ‘heroin chic’ thin that most women strive for and 76% of men being more than happy with average sized breasts.
Guys, what do women really look for in a man?
Is she after a Johnny Depp look alike or is it the size of your wallet that matters? The answer may surprise you. 50% of women questioned thought that a man’s appearance wasn’t important with 91% of women thinking that a man’s attitude was more important than his looks. But before you head out in your lycra tracksuit circa 1993, take note. When it comes to women, it really is the whole package (and that includes the dressing) that counts with 92% saying that how a man dresses and grooms himself is important.
What’s the quickest way to get their attention?
Is there a surefire way to make yourself more attractive to the opposite sex? You betcha!
Girls, research by Dr. Moore found that guys are more likely to approach a woman who was sending positive signals their way than someone who they found more attractive. So, if you think he’s cute, make eye contact and flash him your pearly whites.
Guys, keep the tracky dacks for when you’re in the garden, dress as affluently as you can afford and don’t be afraid to say ‘Hi.’
To find out more about Katia’s new book How to get the man you want and How to get the woman you want visit www.realpeople-realanswers.com or www.top-flirting-tips.com
