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Q&A: how do i leave my common law husband after 21 years?

July 27, 2010 - 11:29 pm 6 Comments

Question by figaro’s mom: how do i leave my common law husband after 21 years?
emotional abuse, infidelity, substance and alcoholism. we bring out the worst in each other. i am a recovering alcoholic with my first year truly living sober in one month. i had the support of counselling and out patient rehabilitation therapy. for the first time in my life, i have seen all kinds of life’s scenarios with a different perspective. unfortunately, i have realized that the relationship i am in fit well with being an alcoholic and a co-dependent person because we both had the right toxic cocktail approach to a relationship. i thought everything was my fault, end of story and have since realized there is so much more beneath the surface. i am still so scared to be on my own even if it means that i will grow. i am one year away from being 50. i still feel unlovable and disgusting, even though intellectually i know that is my disease talking to me. sometimes i still wish i could just “end it all” but realize that as another escape mechanism, like booze. he’s a drug user too, but he insists that pot is good for you. i dont agree. i feel so confused and sad.

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Answer by Xexx M
Hardest part is walking out the door. It gets easier from there.

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my moms going to rehab?

July 27, 2010 - 11:29 pm 3 Comments

Question by ††HeAvEn_hELp_Us††: my moms going to rehab?
the other night my mom went through a withdraw of alcohol. now i learned she is going to go to a rehabilitation center in florida(we live in michigan) for 6 weeks. me and my family can not have any contact with her, and shes going to be gone for christmas. i know i should be happy for my mother that she is treating her alcoholism, but i can’t help but to blame God. i really don;t think i can live without my mother for a month. i’ve even tried to write poetry.(i write when i’m depressed to get my feelings out) . and i wrote a poem that would normally help me with my struggles with God, but now i just feel bitterness towards it. how can i even trust God anymore? its really hard to know hes real. what do you think about this?
by the way heres the poem i wrote.:
(please don’t laugh at the corny-ness; i know its stupid)
When dreams are reaped
When few survivors stand tall
When love doesn’t last
When all you can do is fall

When depression is encouraged
When people fail to learn
When your candle fades away
When suicide is what you yearn

When faith is never returned
When hell seems to near
When you receive what you didn’t deserve
When unconditional love is what you fear

When anger has turned to regret
When solitude is your main goal.
When your Heaven becomes a knife
When your heart is weakened, destroying the soul

When everything seems like life has turned against you.
When you can’t control your thoughts.
When it gets harder and harder to breath.
When you find it is you, you have fought.

When God becomes your scapegoat
When hate knows you better than yourself
When you think you can control the addiction
When this pain is nothing you’ve ever felt

When you want to be content
When you can’t do it on your own
When your hate is being questioned
When you’re tired of being alone.

When this happens to you.
God will always see you through.
When you realize you’re trapped in this darkened pit
Your lantern will be lit.
ro j- i actually pray a lot.

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Answer by Psychologist In The House
listen ur mother made the choice to drink not god so u have to blame her ……i know u love her n forgive her she made a mistake..but do want to spend this 1 christmas witout her or lots more because if she dont go she could die from many ays ,,, dont be angry be thankful god showed her u and what it meant to have u near her so that she wld get help and u will always have ur mother,,

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I heard a sad story today regarding England hero Paul Gascoigne:?

July 27, 2010 - 11:29 pm 3 Comments

Question by Smarty: I heard a sad story today regarding England hero Paul Gascoigne:?
He has been sectioned under the Mental Health Act, couple this with the demons he continues to battle on a daily basis as he fights against alcoholism and you’ve got an icon who has reached rock bottom.

He lives and breathes football and I beleive his talent and influence could still be used in a positive manner somewhere in the game.

I appreciate a Chairman offering him a managerial post is high risk … But i’d love to see the English FA provide him with the opportunity to coach various academies up and down the country – It has to be the best form of rehabilitation!!

What do you think of Gazza’s plight … Should the FA take some responsibility and look after one of their greatest ever players ??

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Answer by Leeds    Leeds    Leeds
He’d have a wife to look after him if he didn’t… well, you know…………….

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What experience exactly can Sarah Palin offer our President on Oil Spills?

July 27, 2010 - 11:29 pm 6 Comments

Question by vote out all RINOs: What experience exactly can Sarah Palin offer our President on Oil Spills?
INTRODUCTION TO THE EXXON VALDEZ LITIGATION

On March 23, 1989, the supertanker EXXON VALDEZ pulled out of Valdez, Alaska, loaded with more than 56 million gallons of crude oil. Captain Joseph Hazelwood, the master of the vessel, had spent the day drinking with crew members. Bartenders testified that he had consumed at least eight vodka doubles, and Coast Guard tests showed his blood alcohol level stood at .241 — more than six times the permissible level under Coast Guard regulations. Third Mate Gregory Cousins was on duty beyond the limits specified by federal fatigue laws. Hazelwood, Cousins and the rest of the crew faced a night voyage through ice in Prince William Sound.

Hazelwood’s intoxication was evident from the alcohol on his breath, his speech (captured on audiotape) and, most of all, his actions as his ship navigated the Sound. While passing through fishing grounds, Hazelwood took the EXXON VALDEZ outside established shipping lanes to avoid ice. He put the vessel on automatic pilot, accelerating directly at Bligh Reef. Hazelwood then left the bridge in violation of federal pilotage regulations. As he went below, Hazelwood gave vague instructions to the inexperienced and fatigued Cousins. Within minutes, the supertanker struck Bligh Reef, spilling 11 million gallons of oil, “the largest oil spill and greatest environmental disaster in American history.”

At trial the jury learned how Exxon’s management of its shipping company made such a catastrophe inevitable. ["Exxon" refers to Exxon Corporation and its subsidiary (and former division) Exxon Shipping Company.] Exxon knew that the results of a major oil spill in the Sound would be as horrendous as they turned out to be, and it so stipulated at trial. Exxon also knew that Hazelwood had a history of alcoholism and poor judgment that made his command of the EXXON VALDEZ a recipe for disaster. After Hazelwood went through an alcohol rehabilitation program in 1985, Exxon made no provision for post-treatment evaluation, aftercare or monitoring. Instead, it immediately reassigned Hazelwood to command, fully understanding that a master “with an alcohol abuse problem was a potential for a disaster to the environment.” Exxon senior management received repeated reports of Hazelwood’s open drinking between 1985 and 1989, but did nothing about it.

In 1989, Exxon’s chairman admitted that putting Hazelwood in charge of a supertanker was a “gross error.” At trial, an Exxon manager conceded that Exxon’s “policies, knowing the risk to the public, of the catastrophic results of a supertanker accident, allow[ed] a relapsed alcoholic to command a supertanker,” and that Exxon’s attitude toward alcohol left him with “no policy to protect the safety of the public.” The evidence also showed that Exxon regularly violated federal fatigue laws and that its loaded tankers regularly departed Valdez in dangerous night-time ice conditions, simply to save money.

Exxon stipulated that its negligence caused this disaster. In Phase I of the trial, the jury found that Exxon and Hazelwood in fact had been reckless. And in Phase 111, the jury decided that the conduct of both Hazelwood and Exxon required assessment of punitive damages as a punishment and deterrent. In awarding billion against Exxon, the jury considered Exxon’s binding trial stipulation that its conduct had caused compensable harm of between 2 million and 8 million (not counting hundreds of millions in harm to tens of thousands of plaintiffs dismissed under the “Robins Dry Dock” doctrine). This award represented less than one-quarter of the increase in Exxon’s value, measured by market capitalization, from the time of the spill to the time of trial.

Throughout this complex litigation, Exxon and Hazelwood received extraordinary procedural and substantive protections. Punitive damages were assessed as a single sum for a mandatory class of all punitive damage claimants, guaranteeing that the defendants would face punitive damages only once. Through the bifurcation of punitive damage issues, Exxon had two opportunities to avoid any punitive damage liability. The court repeatedly told the jury that punitive damages were not favored. The Phase III punitive damage instructions endorsed nearly every mitigating factor asserted by Exxon. Further, most of Exxon’s motions to exclude evidence were granted, and almost all of the evidence that it requested be excluded was excluded.

http://www.jomiller.com/exxonvaldez/articles/intro.html

@Ci Ci

“she can offer her experience on control of oil, and oil overall.”

Are you fing kidding me. Do you really think that other than getting campaign funding, she has any knowledge of Oil operations?

I fill my tank everyday, does that give me experience LOL
@ Dastard

My point exactly.

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Answer by purpleshamrock
Sarah Palin is probably one of the dumbest people in America. She can’t offer anything to us.

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NEED URGENT HELP! ENGLISH TO SPANISH TRANSLATION!!!?

July 27, 2010 - 9:53 am Comments Off

Question by Sita M: NEED URGENT HELP! ENGLISH TO SPANISH TRANSLATION!!!?
I am currently learning Spanish in school and am struggling. Can someone with good Spanish grammar skills translate the following for me to help me. I truly, greatly appreciate it and owe you my life if you do. MUCHOS GRACIAS:)
and PLEASE DONT USE ANY TRANSLATION WEBSITES… they don’t work very well. plez

PLEASE TRANSLATE THE FOLLOWING:

For several decades drugs have been one of the major problems of society. There have been escalating costs spent on the war against drugs and countless dollars spent on rehabilitation, but the problem still exists. Not only has the drug problem increased but drug related problems are on the rise. Drug abuse is a killer in our country. Some are born addicts, while others become users.

Many believe that legalizing drugs would lessen crime. They point out that the legalization of drugs would deter future criminal acts. They also emphasize and contrast Prohibition. When the public realized that Prohibition could not be enforced the law was repealed. From this, one may infer the same of legalizing drugs. Legalizing alcohol didn’t increase alcoholism, so why would drugs increase drug abuse?

However, drugs should not be legalized because there would be an increase in drug abuse due to its availability. Once legalized, drugs would become cheaper and more accessible to people who previously had not tried drugs, because of the high price or the legal risk. Drug abuse would skyrocket! Addicts who tend to stop, not by choice, but because the drugs aren’t accessible would now feed the addiction if drugs were made legal.

Although people feel that legalizing drugs would lessen crime, drugs should remain illegal in the U.S because there would be an increase of drug abuse and a rapid increase of diseases such as AIDS. The United States can not afford this problem. It has become a world power by strengthening its people not by killing them. Drug abuse has gotten worse, with its effects on crack babies, drug addicts, and the I.V user. There must be education for the survival of this nation, not legalization.

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Answer by OldGringo
Good luck finding a free translator.

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plzzzzzzzzzz help plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz………?

July 26, 2010 - 1:15 pm 1 Comment

Question by : plzzzzzzzzzz help plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz………?
10. Taking a fatal amount of a drug (1 point)
overdose
tolerance
alternative
fetal alcohol syndrome
True/False
Indicate whether the statement is true or false.
11. A physical and mental need for a drug is called tolerance. (1 point)
True
False
12. A person in drug rehabilitation lives at a facility with other recovering addicts. (1 point)
True
False
13. Alcoholism can be cured. (1 point)
True
False
14. Al-Anon and Alateen are community support groups to help the families of alcoholics. (1 point)
True
False
15. Alcohol carries short-term and long-term risks. (1 point)
True
False
16. A person’s body weight does not affect how alcohol may affect the person. (1 point)
True
False
17. In the Unites States, it is illegal for anyone under the age of 21 to drink alcohol. (1 point)
True
False
18. Drug abuse affects all sides of a person’s health triangle. (1 point)
True
False
19. Hallucinogens are drugs that relieve pain. (1 point)
True
False
20. The best way to avoid being pressures to use illegal substances is to use refusal skills. (1 point)
True

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Answer by tombstone0831
10. Overdose
11.false
12.?
13.True
14.?
15.True
16.False
17.true
18.True
19.?
20.True

Sorry I don’t know some of them

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plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help plz?

July 26, 2010 - 1:14 pm Comments Off

Question by : plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help plz?
1. Illegal stimulant with dangerous effects that has seen an increase in use in recent years (1 point)
heroin
marijuana
methamphetamine
cirrhosis
2. Permanent mental and physical problems in babies whose mothers drank alcohol while pregnant (1 point)
tolerance
fetal alcohol sydrome
cirrhosis
overdose
3. Sharing needles while using this illegal narcotic can lead to HIV infection (1 point)
stimulants
marijuana
methamphetamine
heroin
4. What you may suggest when refusing drugs or alcohol (1 point)
alternative
overdose
tolerance
stimulants
5. Drugs that speed up the body’s fuctions (1 point)
marijuana
stimulants
heroin
methamphetamine
6. Scarring and destruction of liver tissue (1 point)
fetal alcohol syndrome
tolerance
overdose
cirrhosis
7. Condition in which there is a need for greater amounts of a substance to achieve the same effect (1 point)
cirrhosis
overdose
tolerance
alternative
8. A drug that comes from the hemp plant (1 point)
marijuana
heroin
methamphetamine
cirrhosis
9. To overcome an addiction and return to a mostly normal life
(1 point)
tolerance
recovery
alternative
overdose
10. Taking a fatal amount of a drug (1 point)
overdose
tolerance
alternative
fetal alcohol syndrome
True/False
Indicate whether the statement is true or false.
11. A physical and mental need for a drug is called tolerance. (1 point)
True
False
12. A person in drug rehabilitation lives at a facility with other recovering addicts. (1 point)
True
False
13. Alcoholism can be cured. (1 point)
True
False
14. Al-Anon and Alateen are community support groups to help the families of alcoholics. (1 point)
True
False
15. Alcohol carries short-term and long-term risks. (1 point)
True
False
16. A person’s body weight does not affect how alcohol may affect the person. (1 point)
True
False
17. In the Unites States, it is illegal for anyone under the age of 21 to drink alcohol. (1 point)
True
False
18. Drug abuse affects all sides of a person’s health triangle. (1 point)
True
False
19. Hallucinogens are drugs that relieve pain. (1 point)
True
False
20. The best way to avoid being pressures to use illegal substances is to use refusal skills. (1 point)
True
False

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Answer by Viper
These are really not that hard. If you actually paid attention in class, then these would be easy to you. This is Homework help. Not do my homework for me.

I’ll answer the first 5, but you need to look up the rest yourself – that’s why it’s called “learning”.

1. methamphetamine
2. fetal alcohol sydrome
3. heroin
4. tolerance
5.stimulants also meth does.

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please help with health test please?

July 26, 2010 - 1:14 pm Comments Off

Question by Maria: please help with health test please?
1. Illegal stimulant with dangerous effects that has seen an increase in use in recent years (1 point)
heroin
marijuana
methamphetamine
cirrhosis
2. Permanent mental and physical problems in babies whose mothers drank alcohol while pregnant (1 point)
tolerance
fetal alcohol sydrome
cirrhosis
overdose
3. Sharing needles while using this illegal narcotic can lead to HIV infection (1 point)
stimulants
marijuana
methamphetamine
heroin
4. What you may suggest when refusing drugs or alcohol (1 point)
alternative
overdose
tolerance
stimulants
5. Drugs that speed up the body’s fuctions (1 point)
marijuana
stimulants
heroin
methamphetamine
6. Scarring and destruction of liver tissue (1 point)
fetal alcohol syndrome
tolerance
overdose
cirrhosis
7. Condition in which there is a need for greater amounts of a substance to achieve the same effect (1 point)
cirrhosis
overdose
tolerance
alternative
8. A drug that comes from the hemp plant (1 point)
marijuana
heroin
methamphetamine
cirrhosis
9. To overcome an addiction and return to a mostly normal life
(1 point)
tolerance
recovery
alternative
overdose
10. Taking a fatal amount of a drug (1 point)
overdose
tolerance
alternative
fetal alcohol syndrome
True/False
Indicate whether the statement is true or false.
11. A physical and mental need for a drug is called tolerance. (1 point)
True
False
12. A person in drug rehabilitation lives at a facility with other recovering addicts. (1 point)
True
False
13. Alcoholism can be cured. (1 point)
True
False
14. Al-Anon and Alateen are community support groups to help the families of alcoholics. (1 point)
True
False
15. Alcohol carries short-term and long-term risks. (1 point)
True
False
16. A person’s body weight does not affect how alcohol may affect the person. (1 point)
True
False
17. In the Unites States, it is illegal for anyone under the age of 21 to drink alcohol. (1 point)
True
False
18. Drug abuse affects all sides of a person’s health triangle. (1 point)
True
False
19. Hallucinogens are drugs that relieve pain. (1 point)
True
False
20. The best way to avoid being pressures to use illegal substances is to use refusal skills. (1 point)
True
False

Best answer:

Answer by Marielle
As a retired nurse epidemiologist and counselor of 30 years here is my answers:
1 meth
2 FAS
3 heroin
4 alternative
5 stimulants
6 cirrhosis
7 tolerance
8 marijuana
9 recovery
10 over dose
11 true
12 true
13 false
14 true
15 true
16 false
17 true
18 true
19 false
20 true

good luck

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What is the Orthodox teaching about smoking and drinking?

July 26, 2010 - 1:14 pm 3 Comments

Question by Jacob Dahlen: What is the Orthodox teaching about smoking and drinking?
An excerpt from:
BASES OF THE SOCIAL CONCEPT OF THE RUSSIAN ORTHODOX CHURCH
XI. 6. The Bible says that «wine maketh glad the heart of man» (Ps. 104:15) and «it is good… if it be drunk moderately» (Sir. 31:27). But we repeatedly find both in Holy Scriptures and the writings of the holy fathers the strong denunciation of the vice of drinking, which, beginning unnoticeably, leads to many other ruinous sins. Very often drinking causes the disintegration of family, bringing enormous suffering to both the victim of this sinful infirmity and his relatives, especially children.
«Drinking is animosity against God Drinking is a voluntarily courted devil Drinking drives the Holy Spirit away», St. Basil the Great writes. Drinking is the root of all evils. The drunkard is a living corpse. Drinking in itself can serve as punishment, filling as it is the soul with confusion, filling the mind with darkness, making a drunk prisoner, subjecting one to innumerable diseases, internal and external. Drinking is a many-sided and many-headed beast. Here it gives rise to fornication, there to anger, here to the dullness of the mind and the heart, there to impure love. Nobody obeys the ill will of the devil as faithfully as a drunkard does, St. John Chrysostom exhorted. A drunk man is capable of every evil and prone to every temptation. Drinking renders its adherent incapable of any task, St. Tikhon Zadonsky testifies.
Even more destructive is ever increasing drug-addiction – the passion that makes a person enslaved by it extremely vulnerable to the impact of dark forces. With every year this terrible infirmity engulfs more and more people, taking away great many a life. The fact that the most liable to it are young people makes it a special threat to society. The selfish interests of the drug business help to promote, especially among youth, the development of a special «drug» pseudo-culture. It imposes on immature people the stereotypes of behavior in which the use of drugs is seen as a «normal» and even indispensable attribute of relations.
The principal reason for the desire of many of our contemporaries to escape into a realm of alcoholic or narcotic illusions is spiritual emptiness, loss of the meaning of life and blurred moral guiding lines. Drug-addiction and alcoholism point to the spiritual disease that has affected not only the individual, but also society as a whole. This is a retribution for the ideology of consumerism, for the cult of material prosperity, for the lack of spirituality and the loss of authentic ideals. In her pastoral compassion for the victims of alcoholism and drug-addiction, the Church offers them spiritual support in overcoming the vice. Without denying the need of medical aid to be given at the critical stages of drug-addiction, the Church pays special attention to the prevention and rehabilitation, which are the most effective when those suffering participate consciously in the Eucharistic and communal life.
Taken from the Jubilee Bishops’ Council of the Russian Orthodox Church
Bases of the Social Concept of the Russian Orthodox Church,
August 13-16, 2000
Copyright (c) 2000 Communication service
of the Department for External Church Relations of the Moscow Patriarchate
Adress: 22, Danilovsky val, Danilov monastery DECR, 113191 Moscow, Russia

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Answer by onyx1
Way too much to read, lost interest about half way.

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Health questions, please help.?

July 26, 2010 - 1:14 pm Comments Off

Question by Gabby: Health questions, please help.?
What you may suggest when refusing drugs or alcohol

* alternative
* overdose
* tolerance
* stimulants

Drugs that speed up the body’s functions

* marijuana
* stimulants
* heroin
* methamphetamine

Scarring and destruction of liver tissue

* fetal alcohol syndrome
* tolerance
* overdose
* cirrhosis

Condition in which there is a need for greater amounts of a substance to achieve the same effect

* cirrhosis
* overdose
* tolerance
* alternative

A drug that comes from the hemp plant

* marijuana
* heroin
* methamphetamine
* cirrhosis

To overcome an addiction and return to a mostly normal life

* tolerance
* recovery
* alternative
* overdose

Taking a fatal amount of a drug

* overdose
* tolerance
* alternative
* fetal alcohol syndrome

A physical and mental need for a drug is called tolerance.

* True
* False

A person in drug rehabilitation lives at a facility with other recovering addicts.

* True
* False

Alcoholism can be cured.

* True
* False

Al-Anon and Alateen are community support groups to help the families of alcoholics.

* True
* False

Alcohol carries short-term and long-term risks.

* True
* False

A person’s body weight does not affect how alcohol may affect the person.

* True
* False

In the Unites States, it is illegal for anyone under the age of 21 to drink alcohol.

* True
* False

Drug abuse affects all sides of a person’s health triangle.

* True
* False

Hallucinogens are drugs that relieve pain.

* True
* False

The best way to avoid being pressures to use illegal substances is to use refusal skills.

* True
* False

Best answer:

Answer by kelliegirl38
1. Alternative
2. Stimulants
3. Cirrhosis
4. Tolerance
5. Marijuana
6. Recovery
7. Overdose
8. False
9. True
10.False
11. True
12. True
13. False
14. True
15. True
16. True
17. True

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